‘Stay at home if you don’t want to spend money,’ they say. ‘Look a new flash sale’, notified my Lazada app.
Do you ever have moments when you’re bored at home, and the next thing you know you’re on Lazada just mindlessly looking at stuff?
Hello, we same same, we friend.
I don’t even have an excuse why I open up shopping apps. While typing this, I was literally surrounded by a bunch of stuff I already bought but sparingly use. I guess we all look for new things because new = exciting, but I want to get out of this mindset! I don’t need new things, I should be happy with what I already have!
I was so annoyed with myself over lusting new items that I wrote a list in my notebook about other things I can do at home instead of spending money. Requirements: 1) Must not require any extra money to do, at all, 2) Must be doable at home or within walking distance, and 3) If use up ingredients, then it must be ingredients I already have.
It turned out to be a long list. Here they are:
- Listen to music and podcasts on Spotify. I have a Premium Spotify account. There are years worth of content in there that I could listen to. Related: 3 Ways to Get Cheaper Spotify Premium in Malaysia
- Finish my Udemy courses. Out of three Udemy courses bought in January, I have only finished two. I should tackle that last course soon. I also have tens of courses received for free.
- Declutter and KonMari all my stuff. Not everything I own ‘spark joy’. I want to get rid of them and offer unwanted items still in good condition to the Beli Nothing Project. Why am I so lazy to take pics and post them up, why.
- List things to sell. Similar to above, but for things that I’m too stingy to give up for free.
- Read books and ebooks. I have so many unread books…
- Train my pets. I see videos of cats responding to basic instructions like ‘paw’ and I’m so jealous but still never train my own cats. If anything, they’re training me.
- Clean my apartment. One time, I came across an article about sleepwalking and there was this one case of someone actually sleep-cleaning. As in, they clean their house while they’re asleep. Completely unconscious. Can you imagine waking up every day to a permanently clean house? How awesome, in a ‘be careful what you wish for’ kinda way.
- Use up random ingredients in the fridge that’s about to go bad. Because EVERYTHING can be turned into stews and soups.
- Write that kinky book I wanted to write. I think about the plot all the time. Even in public. Let’s just say that I’m really happy to be a woman so I never have to deal with public boners.
- Wear facial masks. I try to wear them a couple times a week, but sometimes I forgot. Need to be more diligent about this, I do want nice skin.
- Practice my makeup skills and try out different looks. This is kind of hard to do though, I don’t have that much makeup stuff. Then again I don’t know how many beauty products the average woman has, so not sure. Youtube tutorials make it seem like you need a gazillion items just for basic every day looks.
- Condition my hair. I had my hair trimmed recently. Fella said my hair very dry. I can easily put on a coconut-oil hair mask, but I don’t. Idk I’d rather cook with it kot.
- Practice speech to overcome slight lisp. Ever since I had these braces, I’ve developed a noticeable lisp. I should do vocal/mouth exercises to pronounce things better. Related: 3 Things to Know About Braces Cost in Malaysia
- Move about. I know that exercise is proven to help combat ageing, but I still don’t walk around, use the free gym or use the condo pool as often as I should.
- Send tweets/emails/notes of encouragement to friends, family and other people I support. Make people’s day a bit brighter and all, you know?
- ‘Shop the closet’. Ie think of new ways and combinations to wear clothes I already have.
- Sort out pictures on my phone. And delete images I don’t need. Oh look, that’s where I parked the car at Sunway Pyramid… 3 months ago.
- Learn to play the guitar? My friend’s guitar is sorta permanently here anyway.
- Digitise academic certificates and old photo albums. I do want to get this done because they’re heavy and bulky and getting yellow-y, but have been procrastinating on it for years. Something about throwing them out just seems really sad. I’m also not confident with my photography skills – what if my photos don’t do the memories justice? Is there someone who can do this service? #randombusinessidea
- Track other aspects of my life to optimise it. The only thing that I regularly track is my expenses. I’d love to track my water intake, my sleeping patterns, things like that. It just seems overwhelming :/ #nothingbutexcuses
- Make reviews of products, shops, restaurants and places I like. You know those online reviews that help people decide whether they should buy something or not? They are super helpful – all of us have benefited from them. I like the idea of contributing to that information-sharing culture.
- Make tea or coffee and really savour the taste and experience. I have a mini beverage collection – there are at least 10 varieties of tea/coffee in the kitchen cabinet. I could make that tea that I haven’t tried in a while, or use up my moka pot to make strong espressos.
- Make another list. I do like making them. A list of new income ideas? A list of new ways to monetise RoR? Lots of things to think about and jot down, so I can remember them (like this one).
Well, that’s a lot of things to do at home instead of spending money. I have no excuse to do online-shopping, do I?
What do YOU do when you try to keep yourself occupied while not spending money? Is Lazada also your devil or is it another shop?